Roxane Gay

At the end of last month, I went to see Roxane Gay speak in conversation with Christina Hoff Summers which was an event put on by This is 42.

Gay has become of my favourite modern feminists due to her writings which are on point and full of wit.

Hoff on the other hand is someone I had never heard of until I heard her speak at the event. Despite calling herself an equalist feminist, I dont agree with her skewed perception of her personal brand of “factual feminism” as its quite anti-feminist (due to things like challenging women to prevent themselves from getting raped, which was one of the gems she shared with us that night, instead of educating people not to rape in the first place!).

From the outset Hoff monopolised the conversation and dominated it with constant excuses defending the rights of men, highlighting the “me too” movement which has taken things too far, in her opinion.

Gay on other hand, was articulate and an empowering representation of feminism.  Quietly contemplating (with the most amusing expressions and mannerisms to show her thought process) on what was being discussed and sharing her voice in a direct yet eloquent manner, when the opportunity presented itself.

With that said, I have to admit I go to a lot of feminist talks and NEVER in my life have I ever seen so many people walk out of a speaking event.

To say the event put on by This is 42 was a complete and utter shit show, was an understatement, with one person going so far as calling it the “Fyre Festival of Feminism” on the event Facebook page.

The organiser/owner/moderator of This is 42 Desh Amila, moderated the event, quite poorly from my and many other attendees perception.  He asked quite vague questions which are on trend, as if he googled “what are the main feminist topics of today” and didn’t allow both speakers equal speaking time which made the event quite skewed. Desh actually posted something about it on the This is 42 Facebook page a week later to explain the controversy following the event.

No apology was given and Desh basically talked himself and the event up stating really irrelevant things which simply self promoted.  The thing which took me offside with the host to begin with, was how he started the event.  He came on stage and made a penis joke due to being a male hosting the event, coupled with lame excuses as to why couldn’t get a female host.

The video footage Desh created a week or so later was worse, confirmed the opinion myself and many other attendees made of him, which is that of an arrogant self centered businessman making it all about himself and how awesome he is.   Relax guy, you aren’t Steve Jobs and it wasn’t a Ted Talk.

For me the highlight was that I got to meet Roxane Gay and shared a few words with her whilst she signed “Not That Bad, Dispatches from Rape Culture”, as well as having a photo taken with her.  I had a free ticket to the meet and greet, which itself was dismal with less than a dozen attendees (I am assuming was probably due to excessive cost).  The reason I had a free ticket to the meet and greet was due to the writing workshop being cancelled a few days before, which I had booked in with Roxane Gay with the same organiser, which was supposed to be held the night before.

My favourite quotes of the night:

 

“How about we move beyond the debate about whether women are people.”

– Roxane Gay, March 31st 2019

 

“All these problems could be solved by men learning not to rape”

– Roxane Gay, March 31st 2019 

 

(C) T. Altman 2019

 

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Germaine Greer

Last month, I went to see Germaine Greer speak on her publication, “On Rape” by Melbourne University.  I call it a publication as its essay length.

Greer’s book “The Female Eunuch” was the first book I read on Feminism. Although its incredibly dated, at the time (I was just out of my teens) it was a revelation, even though I didn’t agree with all of it.

Over the years Greer’s stances and opinions on things have become more and more skewed from my personal philosophy on what Feminism is.  Therefore I have moved away from her work as I don’t see her as a role-model or person of excellence in the field even though she placed herself as a pioneer feminist during the second wave.   I personally don’t feel she’s an activist like one of my idols Gloria Steinem who I saw speak and inspired me very much.

Suffice to say the event put on by The School of Life didn’t inspire me and in fact left me thinking – wtf Germaine?!?!

From the outset Greer was vague, defensive and refused to answer questions purposefully derailing the conversation and changing the subject.

I couldn’t find a single element of her talk which I agreed with and I felt like the whole thing was created to draw controversy in order to get people to read her essay.  I would of appreciated it moreso, if I didn’t have to pay for a talk which was simply an advertisement for her essay.

Like the majority gathered there, I attended as a curiosity and was left laughing at her not with her and the most interesting aspect of the talk was when a small handful of protesters interrupted about 1/3 of the way through.

I won’t quote what stood out as inspiration because all that stood out is how NOT to be a feminist in my opinion. At least now I can say I have seen her speak.

My parting words on this is that I have moved past her work and will continue to focus on feminist writers who inspire and keep the movement progressing.

(C) T. Altman 2018

 

Poem: A Chance To Shine

I wish
I could go back
In time
Appreciate you
Know you
Be you

Faultless lunacy
Yet upstanding
Source of radiance
Silver Goddess

Your shine has dulled
Your twinkle has gone
Your spark rays dismantled

Light captured
Shared
Eternally emblazoned
Memoriam aglow

© T. Altman 2017

The Taste of You

Compulsively staring at the semi occupied mason jar

Dissecting with critical eyes its lurid contents

Tapping the lettered glass whenever I pass

Occasionally lifting to shake and peer –

Unable to rip away

Heart breaking and bouncing with every vibration

Vinegar water steeped to a furious vermilion

Thirsty for the twist – lift – pop

Take you down

Pervade the depths of me

Quench my thirsty resentment

Sinisterly sinew was the expectation

Smooth Saccharine the surmise

 

© T. Altman 2017

Don’t Tell Me

Don’t Tell Me

Don’t tell me what I can or cunt do
Don’t try to censor me with your personal bias
I am not your mouth piece and never claimed it
I don’t crave your acceptance or require it
Try stifling my speech and see what a territorial bitch I can be
Try throwing archaic values you’ve placed upon locution I feel empowered by
Sisters in solidarity is what we should be
Instead the use of one term divides us
Disagree with me and shame me down
Shame on you for censoring my language
I reclaim the noun – the verb – the word
I use it proud and loud
For I am the CUNT who takes it back and brings it to the fore
For I am the CUNT who refuses to bend to your fickle contempt
For CUNTS everywhere –
I seize and celebrate whilst waving your policing views adieu

 (C) T. Altman 2017